I feel like I haven’t told you enough lately how much I miss you.
I miss you when I wake up in the mornings and only have myself and the dog to take care of. I miss you while I’m at work because I should be at home with you. I miss you when I drink Diet Coke because I wouldn’t dare to drink it while you were with me. I miss you when I get dressed and all of my old clothes fit and my maternity clothes sit in the back of the closet. I miss you while I’m driving, the back row missing an occupied car seat. I miss you when I walk down the hallway and stand in an empty nursery. I miss you when I go to the store and see the foods I used to buy that you liked. I miss you when I’m sleeping, but sometimes I see you in my dreams.
I miss you when I’m breathing.
Your dad and I are going to Disney World on Sunday. I know your absence will be intensified. Last year you were with us. Not too many people knew yet. We bought you your own pair of Mickey ear and had them embroidered with “Baby J” on the back. We used them to create an announcement to tell THE WORLD you were on your way.
I know when we go to Beast’s castle for dinner your dad is going to be very sad. He was so happy to have the Beast wear your Mickey ears and point to my belly and take a picture with us. But, even in the sad, there will be sweetness. The sweet memory that you were here. We will be back in a place where you were with us. Even in your short life, we made memories and you got to go to Disney.
I’m not sure what the most bittersweet part of our trip will be for me. Riding the rides I couldn’t last year because I was keeping you safe? In all honesty, I feel guilty about how excited I am to ride those rides this year. I would rather have you all over again. I hope you know that.
We love you and miss you so much.
And, hey. J, you will always be our dream come true.
All my love.
Hugs and kisses, little one.
2 thoughts on “Dear Joanna (9.17.15)”
I miss her too Honey. When I play with Shay and love on him I think I miss her more than at any other time. She’s always in my heart, even though I can’t hold her again, I will always be so happy that I held her when she was born, still. Love you so much Baby Girl.
I was out of town when you wrote this and I thought of you so much while you were on this trip. I know Baby J was with you at the Beast’s Castle this year, also. Loving you so from just beyond the veil. Blessings and a hug. ❤